Tuesday 16 July 2013

Successful People Start Before They Feel Ready

James Clear

In 1966, a dyslexic sixteen–year–old boy dropped out of school.

With the help of a friend, he started a magazine for students and made money by selling advertisements to local businesses. With only a little bit of money to get started, he ran the operation out of the crypt inside a local church.

Four years later, he was looking for ways to grow his small magazine and started selling mail order records to the students who bought the magazine. The records sold well enough that he built his first record store the next year. After two years of selling records, he decided to open his own record label and recording studio.

He rented the recording studio out to local artists, including one named Mike Oldfield. In that small recording studio, Oldfield created his hit song, Tubular Bells, which became the record label’s first release. The song went on to sell over 5 million copies.

Over the next decade, the young boy grew his record label by adding bands like the Sex Pistols, Culture Club, and the Rolling Stones. Along the way, he continued starting companies: an airline business, then trains, then mobile phones, and on and on.

Almost 50 years later, there were over 400 companies under his direction.

Today, that young boy who dropped out of school and kept starting things despite his inexperience and lack of knowledge is a billionaire. His name is Sir Richard Branson.


How I Met Sir Richard Branson


A few months ago, I walked into a conference room in Moscow, Russia and sat down ten feet from Branson. There were 100 other people around us, but it felt like we were having a conversation in my living room. He was smiling and laughing. His answers seemed unrehearsed and genuine.

At one point, he told the story of how he started Virgin Airlines, a tale that seems to capture his entire approach to business and life.

Here’s the version he told us, as best I can remember it:
I was in my late twenties, so I had a business, but nobody knew who I was at the time. I was headed to the Virgin Islands and I had a very pretty girl waiting for me, so I was -- umm -- determined to get there on time.

At the airport, my final flight to the Virgin Islands was cancelled because of maintenance or something. It was the last flight out that night. I thought this was ridiculous, so I went and chartered a private airplane to take me to the Virgin Islands, which I did not have the money to do.

Then, I picked up a small blackboard, wrote “Virgin Airlines. $29.” on it, and went over to the group of people who had been on the flight that was cancelled.

I sold tickets for the rest of the seats on the charter plane, used their money to pay for the plane, and we all went to the Virgin Islands that night.

I took this photo right after he told that story.


Sir Richard Branson in Moscow, Russia. Photo by James Clear.


What Makes the Difference?


After speaking with our group, Branson sat on a panel with industry experts to talk about the future of business.

As everyone around him was filling the air with business buzzwords and talking about complex ideas for mapping out our future, Branson was saying things like: “Screw it, just get on and do it.”

As I looked up at that panel, I realized that the person who sounded the most simplistic was also the only one who was a billionaire. Which prompted me to wonder, “What’s the difference between Branson and everyone else in the room?”

Here’s what I think makes all the difference:

Branson doesn’t merely say things like, “Screw it, just get on and do it.” He actually lives his life that way. He drops out of school and starts a business. He signs the Sex Pistols to his record label when everyone else says they are too controversial. He charters a plane when he doesn’t have the money.

When everyone else balks or comes up with a good reason for why the time isn’t right, Branson gets started.


Start Before You Feel Ready


Branson is an extreme example, but we could all learn something from his approach.

If you want to summarize the habits of successful people into one phrase, it’s this: successful people start before they feel ready.

If there was ever someone who embodied the idea of starting before they felt ready to do so, it’s Branson. The very name of his business empire, Virgin, was chosen because when Branson and his partners started they were “virgins” when it came to business.

Branson has started so many businesses, ventures, charities, and expeditions that it’s simply not possible for him to have felt prepared, qualified, and ready to start all of them. In fact, it’s unlikely that he was qualified or prepared to start any of them.

He had never flown a plane and didn’t know anything about the engineering of planes, but he started an airline company anyway.

If you’re working on something important, then you’ll never feel ready. A side effect of doing challenging work is that you’re pulled by excitement and pushed by confusion at the same time.

You’re bound to feel uncertain, unprepared, and unqualified. But let me assure you of this: what you have right now is enough. You can plan, delay, and revise all you want, but trust me, what you have now is enough to start.

It doesn't matter if you're trying to start a business, lose weight, write a book, or achieve any number of goals... who you are, what you have, and what you know right now is good enough to get going.

We all start in the same place: no money, no resources, no contacts, no experience. The difference is that some people — the winners — choose to start anyway.

No matter where you are in the world and regardless of what you’re working on, I hope you’ll start before you feel ready.

And if you’re having trouble getting started, then read this article: How to Stop Procrastinating

James Clear writes at JamesClear.com, where he uses a blend of real-world experiences and proven research to share ideas for rethinking and improving your life. For fresh ideas on how to live a healthy life -- both mentally and physically -- join his free newsletter.
  

Thursday 4 July 2013

注意!大家请记住14条,关键时刻能救你一命!

注意!大家请记住14条,关键时刻能救你一命!

现在的社会太杂乱,有时候为了保护自己,不得不强大起来。所以今
天为大家搜集了十四种关键时刻救命的方法!

1. 永远记住,你的胳膊肘是你身上最强壮的地方。如果能用,一定要用

2. 如果强匪问你要钱包,不要递给他。拿起钱包向远处丢。一般情况下,他会对你的钱包比对你更有兴趣。等他往那个方向转的时候,你要向相反的方向拼命地跑。

3. 强匪抢包的时候,你不要舍不得。你包里再贵的东西都可以再买一次。但是你的生命买不来。

4. 强匪入家门抢东西,你最好不要废话罗嗦。保持清醒。不要想和他说话分散他的注意力。他知道你想干什么。往往这样会让他更反感。也不要言语刺激,不要很多眼神接触。总的来说,一般强匪入室抢劫,他只是求财,而且越快越好。可是如果你言语刺激或者不合作,那么他就会用”他的方式”告诉你,现在是谁有主动权。

5. 但是,如果你可以到你的阳台,或者一切可以和外界联系的地方, 或者听见门口有人等等,请你拿上所有能发声的东西,大声呼救。一般如果强匪发现有别人知道了他的行为,会匆忙离去。

6. 如果有这个可能,你被丢进了后车厢。那么你要使劲踢后车灯的地方。等后车灯被踢掉以后,把你的胳膊从那个洞伸出去挥舞。开车人看不到你,但是别的车能看到。这个挽救过生命。

7. 如果你喜欢买东西,吃饭,下班以后回你车里坐那算账,记事,等等,请你改掉这个习惯。这是罪犯最完美的时刻跳进附驾驶的位子或者后座,拿枪对着你的脑袋让你开车去他方便犯罪的地方。所以请你上车以后就锁上车门离开。

8. 如果有人已经跳进你的车子拿枪对着你,不要开车去他叫你去的地方。千万不要。你应该发动你的车子,然后以最快的速度开向离你最近的任何墙,树,等等。你的气囊袋会救你。如果罪犯是在后座,那他会伤的很惨。如果可以,车撞了以后离开你的车子然后呼救。如果不能离开,相信你也已经引来了足够的视线。记住,你宁可撞死,也不要多天以后,赤身裸体的被发现在某处荒无人烟的地方的草堆里。

9. 几条关于停车场的忠告:
  a. 记住上车前观察你的车子周围,附驾驶座以及后座。
  b. 如果你的车子是停在一个大的面包车边上,而且面包车是停在驾驶座这边的,那么请你从附驾驶这一边上车。
  c. 小心停在你车两边的车。如果有男性一人坐在靠你车的这一面。请你务必小心。

10.记住坐电梯。特别是晚上。楼梯道在早上和晚上都不是什么有趣的地方。(这里给一个和这个没什么关系的小tip: 如果坐电梯的时候电梯突然下坠,立刻把你这层下面的所有楼层全部按一遍。一般情况下如果突然下坠是电路问题,那么如果到哪层电路工作正常了,电梯会停下。如果电梯持续下坠,请背靠电梯墙壁站好(作为脊椎支撑),手扶紧扶手,半弯你的膝盖(电梯突然着地可以稍微缓冲你的惯性,让你不要直直的从电梯地上穿下去)我开玩笑,但是可以缓冲你的惯性是真的.

11.如果有人拿枪指着你,拔腿就跑。奔跑中的点被击中的可能性是4%。就算击中,一般也不会是重要内脏。如果可以,以梯子形左右跑。除非他追你,那你就什么也别管了,撒开腿往人多的地方跑吧

12.不要什么人都可怜。时刻保持警惕。

13. 门口听见婴儿哭声,不要开门,直接报警。大多是录音带和一个强奸犯。

14. 买完东西以后,数清楚你的钱。有这样的案子。女人在加油站加油以后付过钱回到车上。这时有个男人走过来敲打她的玻璃窗,手里一张5元钱,说她掉的。这个女人就感谢他,开窗/开门,然后发生的事情就我们无法想象的了!

编后语:现在的这个社会,罪犯真的越来越残忍。现在保命比较重要,记住这些方法,先学起来吧!!
亲爱的朋友们,为了自己和关心的人的个人安全,动动手指分享了吧

A MUST READ..!! This is a vital information - literally of life and death - Be sure to read it and send it to those who appreciate it.

A MUST READ..!!
This is a vital information - literally of life and death - Be sure to read it and send it to those who appreciate it.

WATER AND SOAP IN ARMPIT
BEFORE BEDTIME
We spend the night with clean and underarm deodorant, to be a free breathing time the armpit.
Some time ago, I went to a seminar on Breast Cancer, led by Terry Birk with support from Dan Sullivan.

During the discussion, asked why the most common reason for developing breast cancer tumors is near the armpit.
My question could not be answered at that time.
This information was sent to me recently, and I'm glad it has been answered.
I informed a friend who is undergoing chemotherapy and she said that I had this information, obtained in a support group that frequents ...
Now I want to share information with you.!The main cause of Breast Cancer
is the use of anti-perspirant!

Most products on the market are a combination of anti-perspirant/deodorants.
Look at the labels!
Deodorant is fine,
ANTI-PERSPIRANT, NO.
The concentration of toxins causes
cell mutation:
CANCER. Here's why:

The human body is just a few areas where it can eliminate toxins: behind the knees, behind the ears, the English area and armpits.
Toxins are eliminated through perspiration.
The anti-perspirant, as the name says, prevents you from perspiring, thereby inhibiting the body to eliminate toxins through the armpits.
These toxins do not magically disappear.

As not come with sweat, the organism ta deposited in the lymph glands found under the arms.
Most breast cancers occur in the upper outside quadrant of the breast area.
Precisely where are the glands in men seems to occur to a lesser extent, but are not exempt from
Breast Cancer develop because of the anti-perspirant used instead of soap and water.
The difference lies in the fact that when men use anti-perspirant, not applied directly to the skin, they do so in large part on the hair of the armpits.

Women who apply antiperspirant or aftershave shaving the underarms, increase the risk due to tiny injuries and skin irritations which make harmful chemical components to penetrate more quickly into the body,

Please pass this infornación everyone ...
Breast Cancer is becoming frighteningly common and this warning may save some lives.
If somehow doubt this information, they can make their own investigations
They'll probably come to the same conclusion

一位母亲在女儿婚宴上的讲话,震惊了所有人!

一位母亲在女儿婚宴上的讲话,震惊了所有人!


这是一个从来不主动讲话,碰到重要场合就逃避的母亲,在女儿的婚
礼上却震撼全场,讲出了一篇婚姻哲学,耐人回味,值得借鉴,不如来学习经营婚姻的诀窍。

亲爱的各位亲戚朋友:
...
大家好,非常感谢大家在百忙之中,放弃休息的时间,前来参加这个宴会。作为母亲,看着自己心爱的儿女长大,有了自己的小家庭,我感到很幸福。在坐的很多亲戚,是看着孩子长大的,所以,在这里我首先要感谢大家这么多年来对孩子的关心和帮助。

虽然今天是大喜的日子,但是作为母亲,我不想说什么“执子之手,与子偕老”,“百年好合,天长地久”之类祝福的话。我想对女儿、女婿叮嘱几句,说三句“不是”:

第一句,婚姻不是1+1=2,而是0.5+0.5=1。
结婚后,你们小两口都要去掉自己一半的个性,要有作出妥协和让步的心理准备,这样才能组成一个完美的家庭。现在的青年男女们,起初往往被对方的“锋芒”所吸引,但也会因为对方的“锋芒”而受伤。妈妈是过来人,想对你们说,收敛自己的“锋芒”,容忍对方的“锋芒”,才是两情永久的真正秘诀。

第二句,爱情不是亲密无间,而应是宽容“有间”。

结婚后,每个人都有自己的交往圈子,夫妻双方有时模糊点、保留点,反而更有吸引力,给别人空间,也是给自己自由。请记住,婚姻不是占有,而是结合,所谓结合,就像联盟,首先要尊重对方。

第三句,家不是讲理的地方,更不是算账的地方,家是一个讲爱的地方。

不是有这么一句话吗?男人是泥,女人是水。所以男女的结合不过是“和稀泥”。婚姻是两个人搭伙过日子,如果什么事都深究“法理”,那只会弄得双方很疲惫。

好了,我就说这些。最后,妈妈还是衷心地祝愿你们婚姻美满,幸福甜蜜。也祝愿在坐的各位亲朋好友家庭和睦、身体健康、万事如意!

Tuesday 2 July 2013

歇后语



着鞋不着袜,做人唔方老实。
相由心生,逢系衣着粗疏,做人处事必定大意。
还笋过猪肉焖竹笋。
小数怕长计(积少成多),省钱最实际。
人才不出众,说话得要玲珑。


眼宽肚窄 (肚子饱眼睛不饱)
夫妻本是同林鸟,大难临头 各自飞。
错就要认,打就要企 定。
AQ  : 面对逆境的承受能力
三心两意:
开心:老公拼搏
担心:老公熬病
痛心:老公辛苦
爱意/钟意 :上进又有斗心
满意:给你一百分,给足十个Like.